Men are simple creatures who are easy to get interested in sex or the possibility of having sex. But there are a few ways to pique a guy's interest without performing some of the "obvious" sexy tasks, like donning a pair of tight jeans or batting your eyelashes. A great conversation can be enormously attractive, and the subjects you choose matter. Many guys like to fix things, and if you have that same technical frame of mind - and not just about cars or other heavy equipment - they'll be impressed. Computer know-how particularly gets a guy's attention. If he's tapping away on his iPad, a great conversation starter might be asking him about his famous apps. Being self-sufficient when it comes to fixing computer problems and not having to run to the closest Genius bar or Geek Squad is super attractive. Knowing your way around the kitchen is another major bonus when it comes to attracting a guy.
Just telling him about some amazing meal you cooked or bringing an awesome appetizer that you made to a party may get him thinking, "Hey, I want her to cook for me, too!" And then one thing may lead to another, and so on and so forth. A guy would rather not hang your pictures or reseal your grout or any of those other "honey-do" projects around your house. Why not learn to do easy fix-it jobs yourself? He'll definitely be impressed that you're good with your hands, if you know what we mean. Sexy lingerie will definitely get him going, but he may get desensitized to it after a while. Switch to a sweet, clean pair of white cotton underpants (no granny pants!) and see if it gets his imagination going. Once in a while, that virginal allure can be super hot. Finally, try exercise to get him going. We're not talking about becoming a gym rat, necessarily, and certainly not becoming a bodybuilder. But a woman who has definite fitness goals, like running a 5K or half marathon, will get a lot of appreciation from her significant other, who may even join in to meet the goal!