The idea of owning a cell phone appeals to most kids, especially tweens, who are forming social groups and getting involved in after-school activities. But how do you know when it's time to let them phone home with their very own phone? The first thing to investigate is whether or not their school allows phones at all. Since catastrophic events like Columbine and 9/11, many schools have relaxed rules about having phones. But it's worthwhile to check first - and be sure your child is capable of understanding and following those regulations. Analyze whether your child really needs a cell phone - most preteens don't. But it might be a consideration if your child is involved with a lot of extracurricular activities that end at variable times. When they need a ride home, it's easier to reach you when they don't have to search for a phone.
Once you decide that your child should have a phone, it's time to lay down ground rules about usage, minutes and when it's inappropriate to use the phone. It may help to make a list of approved contacts, or preprogram the child's cell after you purchase it. Educate the child about school rules and proper cell phone etiquette in other situations. Help him learn how to adjust the phone's volume and how to turn it on vibrate for public places like movie theaters. Advise him that it's not OK to take embarrassing pictures on the phone - if it has that functionality. If you think your child is up for the responsibility of owning a cell phone, then give it a try. Just choose the right phone for your needs.