When you're a parent, godparent, aunt, uncle or have a close relationship with a child, you expect to be the one dishing out life lessons and wisdom. But there are a few lessons that adults who are unlucky in love can take away from the young. That saying "it is what it is" rings true for kids – they have the ability to accept the things they cannot change. But for the younger set, they also have the courage to question that which they can change. It's easy to apply this lesson to a relationship – for those who never seem to be satisfied with a partner, it can encourage looking for the good in someone and accepting the little faults that ordinarily would be a dealbreaker. When a relationship problem really does need to be addressed, have the courage to do so and the optimism to see things through afterward.