As children are raised with a certain archetype of a relationship, they learn how to behave in adult relationships...for better or worse. Studies show that children of divorced parents are more likely to have their own marriages end in divorce. Likewise, you may follow Mom's lead when it comes to learning how women should be treated. If she allowed a man to disrespect or abuse her, then you might allow the same in your adult relationships. Or if she berated and beat down the male figures in your life, you may choose a milquetoast man who will take the abuse without putting up much of a fight. The good news is that you can break any negative patterns in relationships by being aware of them and even seeking therapy to change your behavior.