There are plenty of places where single guys hang out. That doesn't mean it's where you should expect to find one who's ready for a long-term relationship, however. So here are some places where you're not likely to find Mr. Right...unless you're looking for Mr. Right Now, perhaps. It goes without saying that the hypersexualized environment of a bar or club isn't a good place to meet quality men for several reasons. First, how can you even get to know one another if you're shouting over loud music? When you factor in the alcohol-soaked atmosphere, you and any guy are not going to be at your best, conversationally speaking. If you really think he's worth it, feel free to exchange phone numbers, but don't go anywhere else with him until you both sober up. Casinos are also not great venues for meeting men. Sure, they're there, but are they really the caliber of man you want? The guys there may skew on the sketchy side, so be careful.
A slightly tamer environment might be the gym or a sporting event, but if he's physically exerting himself, you won't get his undivided attention. Guys are competitive and fairly focused in these environments. Not to mention if he's benching a few hundred pounds, he really ought to be concentrating on that, not you. Two places where it seems ideal to meet men might be the workplace and your apartment building, if you live in one. However, consider the proximity to which you're near a potential mate. If it doesn't work out, how awkward is that going to be? There are issues with mixing love and your career as well - if things go really bad, then you might be forced to look elsewhere for employment. And you wouldn't want to see an ex every day at the mailbox. Stick with quieter places - that aren't too close to home or work - when you're looking for the perfect guy.
