Not so if you're single. You'll avoid those awkward family meetings and discussions when you're single, not to mention not have to squabble over how to split your time between two families. You have the freedom to decide with whom you want to spend your time, instead of being locked into a day of forced merrymaking with people you don't particularly like. When you open yourself up to friends as a "holiday orphan," it's likely you'll get your choice of fun places to visit with friends and their families - and you can even stop at a few places! Not having to worry about another person wanting to leave early or whether or not he or she is having a good time is another relief during the holidays. As a singleton, you have the freedom to do what you want during the holidays, and that includes grabbing a friend and taking a vacation if you like. Now that's something to be thankful for!