411 on Open Relationships
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Honesty -- first and foremost. Talk openly about what you are comfortable with and what you are not. While some couples prefer a "don't ask, don't tell" policy, others want to know every detail of their partner's exploits. Regardless of what ruled you lay down, it's imperative that you always keep the channels of communication open. Next, remember there is a fine line between what is physical and emotional. Don't cross it. Just because your relationship is open doesn't mean you have a license to get emotionally attached to someone else. Don't muddy the waters. A fling is just that. Letting it evolve into anything more is a recipe for disaster. Another no-brainer -- always practice safe sex for the sake of everyone involved. Use condoms each and every time you have sex -- and remember, even condoms leave you at risk for certain STDs. Last but not least, always remember that adopting an open relationship lifestyle is one door you might not be able to close.
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