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Simply appreciate the child's efforts in the game; reward not only the outcome, but also the effort. Be a great role model for your child, appreciating your own accomplishments and not focusing on flaws. Watch your kids as they interact in groups - kids with high self-esteem are comfortable in group settings and when conflict arises, they can work toward agreement within the group by finding solutions and communicating with other kids. Frame your responses in a positive light, focusing on the child's accomplishments, even if it may seem difficult. If your child comes home and says, "I hate school. I can't do reading," then give encouragement with a statement like, "You're a great student, but we just need to spend some extra time on reading. I'll help you." Spontaneous affection and a loving home environment go a long way in encouraging positive self-esteem.
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