A new year can mean a new start in many areas of your life. So why not make dating success one of the areas that you work on? If you've been struggling to meet and keep the man of your dreams, then these resolutions can help you to break through those old patterns into a new happy, loving, romantic relationship. If you're ready to find out what successful dating requires, these 6 resolutions will help:{relatedarticles}
Some women devalue themselves in a man's eyes by putting themselves down and telling him all their bad points up front. This is not a good sales call and will not get you the guy. Present your positive points in the beginning and don't show the negatives until your relationship is strong enough to cope. This means not spilling your negative emotions, including how badly men have acted towards you in the past. Present yourself as a quality woman who is in control of herself because she doesn't put up with other people's bad treatment or let herself be taken advantage of.
Resolve to let him show you what a catch he is
Don't go mad trying to convince him what a catch you are. If you want to be in control of the new relationship, then let him show you why he is the one for you. Quite often a man will go crazy over a woman when he is not sure whether she is into him, whilst the woman who chases him shows herself as easy prey and not such a good long-term prospect. Let him show you that he is mature, stable and crazy about you before you let yourself get hooked.
{relatedarticles}Resolve to become the centre of your own fulfilling universe
Stop looking for a man to provide all your entertainment and start looking for a source of fulfilment outside of a relationship. That's doesn't mean just keeping yourself busy until the right man comes along, but finding out what really fulfils you and makes you happy. When you enjoy your life with or without a man, you will radiate a magic sense of satisfaction that is very powerful and attractive to a man.
Resolve to stop making it all about you
Do you analyse everything a man does in a relationship and make it all about you? When he pulls away do you wonder what you did wrong and hound him until you find out the score? Early on in relationships, a man is not always going to be available to you and you need to learn to deal with this. Don't take it personally and make it all about you or you will drive yourself crazy. You can't expect to always be his top priority when you've only just met so learn to stay cool when he withdraws and your relationship will survive.{relatedarticles}
Resolve to let him go early if he's not "the one"
When we meet a guy we like, sometimes we want it to work out so badly that we forget to look out for whether he is going to make a suitable partner. We ignore all those signs that are screaming at us that it's not quite right and forge ahead because we are so invested in making it work. Don't push your doubts to one side because you don't want to be on your own. Resolve to check him out first before you fall for him. If you see signs that he's not "the one" then let him go early on and move on.
Resolve to learn how to date successfully
Many women don't even know that they are sabotaging their dating efforts with certain behaviours that just don't work with men. It is difficult to resolve these kinds of errors when you don't even realise that you are making them. If you have a string of failed relationships behind you, or you think that all men are the same, then resolve to learn how to date successfully. You don't have to be single any longer when you know what works in dating and relationships.{relatedarticles}
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