If you want to go with that theme, then drop in a pair of handcuffs and perhaps that ubiquitous grey tie, which can multitask for him in the bedroom and the office! Try a few dirty DVDs if you think he'd be up for it. Spice up your safety dance by picking up some holiday condoms over on Amazon as well. If you need a "little helper" in the bedroom, search the gift categories on Web sites like Babeland.com, a leading sex toy site that offers kits for couples. The Orgasm in a Box set for men includes lube, a soft masturbator and a penis ring that increases his pleasure while vibrating against you for added benefits! If you're just making the foray into sex toys and aids, then take it easy. Perhaps a gift card to an online store or one in your town would allow the two of you to explore together. Have a sexy, saucy holiday together, and you'll reap the rewards into the New Year!